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About two years ago I decided to get the copper IUD, Paragard. Since around the age of 16 I had tried many different brands of birth control pills, but I felt like they all made my acne worse (even the brands that are supposed to make it better). I also didn’t like the idea of taking hormones for the rest of my fertile years haha. Soo I did some research and found Paragard. This is a non-hormonal IUD that has copper wrapped around it (copper is toxic to sperm). They had me at “non-hormonal,” but then I read it can last up to 10 years (bonus!) and I was all in. While reading about the process and side effects I saw pretty mixed reviews…some said “mild cramping after insertion, but no problems after!” while others said “worst experience of my life.” A lot of them had “heavier bleeding during periods” in common also. I figured I’d try my luck and schedule an appointment. Before the procedure the doctor gave me some Ibuprofen, waited 15min or so and then started the process. She said I would feel a slight pinch when she inserts it and afterwards I should stay laying down for 5-10min. Let.me.tell.you. it HURT. The next few hours I had waves of intense cramping and I had to go home instead of returning to work, but the next day I was fine. Later that month I got my first period with the IUD …quick backstory: I usually used 3-4 regular tampons a day while on my period and had never experienced cramps throughout my 12 years of having a period… I remember getting up for work and having blood ALL OVER my clothes. I went to take a shower and started having such bad cramps that I had to lay down on the bathroom floor and the next thing I remember was waking up a few minutes later in a puddle of blood. At that moment I thought “yeah.. this isn’t for me,” but I had just paid out of pocket for the IUD (at the time they were around $400) and decided to try and tough it out. Over the next 4-6 months I experienced severe cramping and even more severe bleeding (literally changing “super plus” tampons every hour and sometimes that wasn’t enough to prevent bleeding through my clothes). After around 6 months the cramping was less frequent and now (2 yrs later) I’ll just cramp a little before my period starts. The bleeding also calmed down significantly and now I only use 3-4 “super” tampons on my heaviest day.
To anyone who is considering a copper IUD: keep in mind that every body is different and everyone’s experience is different. This was MY experience and although it was MISERABLE at first, I’m so happy with it now!
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It’s been 16 days since I had my paragard IUD removed and I can already tell a WORLD of difference! I had my IUD in for 6 1/2 years…. I should’ve had it removed sooner!! It didn’t cause pain everyday; the only time it did was during sex and on my period, so I thought. I constantly cramped and not just my abdomen but my butt as well… it was the worst pain ever right before my period. The bleeding wasn’t bad on my period but everything else was! I had my first period after having it removed and I barely even cramped, my bleeding was normal and no butt pain!!! I also didn’t experience any bloating like I normally do or at least have been for the past 6 and 1/2 years. I also didn’t feel any big shifts in my mood.
During the first couple years with the IUD I swore I could feel it while sitting but it never shift or moved. My doc said while removing it that it was in the perfect position, exactly where it needed to be. I will say when he showed me the IUD after taking it out, IT WAS HUGE… I don’t remember it being that big when looking at it before insertion. It was maybe an inch if that but the one he pulled out was 2 inches if not 2 and 1/2. No wonder I could feel it while sitting and during sex.
The pain was so awful during sex, not every time but about 90% of the time. It felt like being stabbed no matter what position we were in. My husband could also feel it at times. I also would start cramping really bad during sex and if I didn’t cramp during, I would cramp so bad after. I felt so bad for my husband because I didn’t want him to feel like he was doing something wrong because he wasn’t. He tried his best at trying to make me feel comfortable and trying to find positions that worked.We had sex for the first time without my IUD and OMG THE SEX WAS SO GREAT!!! BIG difference, like night and day. I didn’t realize how badly it affected sex for me… after, I cried because I haven’t been able to really enjoy sex and I forgot how much I enjoyed it.
I’ve read that people have gained weight after getting their IUD inserted. That didn’t happen to me but I did develop really bad anxiety and depression.. I’ve always been a super positive and an everything works out kind of person. I’ve always been super active and happy but after the first couple months I started feeling real sad and I developed fears over things I didn’t fear before. I thought it was postpartum depression but I still felt that way after 6 years, my daughter was born in 2017.
I noticed a difference in my mood after about 10 days of having my IUD removed. I haven’t felt super anxious over things that I would’ve a month ago and I don’t feel super sad all the time.I highly recommend getting your IUD removed if you have one!! It didn’t hurt at all getting it removed; it felt like removing a tampon. I did have some light cramps for the rest of the day but they were gone by the next morning. I do recommend eating before you get it removed. My appointment was at 8:50am and I don’t usually eat breakfast and after removal my doc told me to gently sit up and when I did I started to feel real faint. Luckily they had snacks for that situation so they had me lie back and eat some peanut butter crackers and drink water.
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I’m getting mine taken out ASAP. Got it in October and gained 25 pounds. Ughh. And the periods are horrible. Bleeding through ultra tampons. I hate it so much. 🙁
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I came across this forum and read all the experiences everyone has had with the Paragard. At this moment I’ve only had mine in for a month and I just want to rip it out. My insertion for the Paragard was fine. I did not experience any pain during, just a slight pinch. However after the fact I felt a rush of cramps and I was in the bed for the rest of the day taking ibuprofen every 6 hrs. I have not experienced any heavy bleeding. I’ve only swapped back and forth between liners and light tampons. However, the only downside I’ve experienced so far that makes me want to rip it out is vaginal itch and a swollen sensation. I had a yeast infection a couple of weeks after my initial insertion. Now a month later still experiencing the itching and soreness. My doc prescribed me fluconazole to help treat the yeast infection since it may still be present. My insurance completely covered my Paragard and the procedure so I really want to give it a chance. I will continue to try and treat the yeast infection but if this sensation is persistent I will consult with my doc and potentially have it removed.
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By the time I was 20, I had two babies, despite the pill, and was wearing a Paragard. I would wear one until I was 46, which was last year. I too found the initial insertion and the 10-year reinsertions to be painful, but the pain was brief. Afterwards, my periods drastically increased in intensity, and was wearing Kotex Super Security Plus Tampons, which felt like I was wearing a dildo! My periods would remain intense until I had the IUD removed. I too had a problem with my husband’s size, he too was BIG. Trimming the strings a few months afterwards did the trick. To get us through those few months, he wore spacer rings, to limit his penetration. 54, this is when I had the Paragard removed. It was reassuring, being there for the removal, and knowing that it would not be followed by another painful insertion this time. Until early last year, I was wondering if menopause was going to kick in, or if I was going to endure another reinsertion. But my Coming-Out took care of that question. Last year during my annual gynecologist visit, I asked her to go ahead and remove it. Not only did my partner take this as a sign of commitment to her, but my periods got significantly lighter, meaning I could wear mini-tampons, but also they went from seven days to five days.
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You said it all right. Did you know that in this case, you can sue? This is because manufacturers have hidden the dangers of this drug. I have read that lawyers argue that the manufacturer has obtained sufficient information about the alleged risks of the IUD device. From both post-marketing experiences, medical product safety network data, and clinical trials. However, Teva remained focused on the end result, never warning women about the potentially serious risks of using Paragard for contraception. Therefore, if you have any claim, then you can safely file a lawsuit.
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After starting my adult life on the pill, and not being good friends with hormones, I had a 30-year journey with the Paragard. And what a journey it was!
Like said earlier, insertions are PAINFUL! I had three of them, and dreaded each one. I had each insertion done while I was menstruating, and the cervix was naturally dilated, but still PAINFUL! After the first one, at 25, I kept menstruating for another two weeks – and it was very heavy menstruation. Like my body was trying to expell the IUD. My gynecologist said she had never seen menstruation so heavy. Periods over the next couple of months would be very heavy, but each one would be a little bit lighter than the previous one. It took about a year before my periods were somewhat back to close to what they were, but still rather heavy, and would remain so until menopause.
Another challenge I had, our first intercourse after insertion, my husband hit the strings, which he definitely did not enjoy. Let’s say it’s because he’s “quite big”. I was told to wait three months, and come back to get the strings trimmed. Which I did. And that problem went away. Fortunately. After the second and third insertions, we had to do the same thing. A frustrating three months for both of us.
At my third and last insertion, I asked my gynecologist about switching to the Mirena. I really liked the idea of curtailing periods. But she knew I was a smoker, and therefore convinced me, not only because I was a smoker but especially at 45, that I did not need to introduce hormones into my system. So I stuck with the Paragard.
Menopause was behind me at 54, this is when I had the Paragard removed. It was reassuring, being there for the removal, and knowing that it would not be followed by another painful insertion this time.The Paragard is certainly not for everybody, but after a rough first year, I wound up swearing my mine. Since we are both very true to each other, and because of a better than 99% effective rate, the Paragard meant totally worry-free sex for us.
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I read that your period blood can be a different color and thickness when you are on the pill versus not. That was my experience too when I stopped the pill my blood was a much brighter. Maybe that is why yours has gotten darker.
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]I’m so glad the Paraguard is working out better for you now! I’m sorry you had such a bad experience at first. I recently got the Paragaurd and, like you, read all the mixed reviews beforehand and saw that many people also had a tough first few months. For me, I was super nervous about the insertion process… I made sure to take Ibuprofen before and then during the whole process I really focused on trying to “breathe through” the pain. The docs were like “dang you should teach our pregnancy breathing classes” LOL. I feel like it helped though because I would say the process was uncomfortable but not super painful. The day after the insertion I started “spotting” which lasted for over a week. It was a much different color and texture (??) then I had ever experience before. The blood was pretty much black. I’m only on my second period since having Paragaurd, but so far my periods have been different, but manageable. It almost seems like I’m bleeding less, but it’s spread out over more days?? So pre-Paragaurd my periods would only be 3-5 days, and post-Paragaurd they are more like 7+ days. I am getting some pretty intense cramps here and there but they aren’t constant. I’m curious to see how my periods will be over the next few months. I’ll post an update around the 6 month mark!
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